Our kids are 'free spirits' and polite

David and Victoria Beckham have described their family life in a new interview with Hello! Canada.

After 11 years together, Posh and Becks give a rare glimpse into the "fortunate" life they share with their sons Brooklyn, 11, Romeo, eight, and Cruz, five, and reveal how their marriage stays so strong.

On their discipline style:
Victoria: "We're both disciplinarians, but the kids are very free-spirited. I'm a good morning person so I'm up early and get them riled up for the day. David's not good first thing. He's a bloody miserable sod."
David: "I'm fine after a coffee."

On Romeo's new cell phone:
Victoria: "Romeo just got a cell phone. He got a little Pay As You Go. It's good for him because he loves to text."
David: "It's the same phone as Justin Bieber's, so he's obsessed. He's been phoning my mum at 3am because he doesn't know about the time difference between LA and the UK."

On teaching their kids gratitude:
Victoria: "The kids don't feel entitled at all. As a family, we do charity projects, 99% of which we're really quiet about. Brooklyn is starting to learn more about charities and is taking his responsibilities seriously as someone who is in the public eye. He really loves it and the boys all want to do what they can to help. We do it as a family and really enjoy it."

On raising polite kids:
Victoria: "People always compliment the boys on their manners and that's a compliment to me and David and our parents. They realise they're in a privileged position. They're free spirits - they run around and sing and laugh, but they've got manners."
David: [laughing] "They can also swear in sign language!"
Victoria: "We're all learning sign language because one of our friends is deaf. So, of course, the first thing Cruz, who is five, wanted to learn was how to say, 'I have gas,' and the 's' word. He also wanted to know what other swear words were."

On how the boys react to seeing racy pics of mum & dad in the media:
David: "They say, 'Eww, gross!'"
Victoria: "And 'make out, make out, make out!' or 'snog, snog, snog!'"

On keeping the spark alive:
Victoria: "We're soulmates. We're so lucky to have each other."
David: "We always make time for each other. Our boys are our main priority, but we have a date night every Wednesday."

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Rage Again Tears Passion Women Men

Crying it can bring empathy and sadness, but for a man tear that trickled from her eyes can cause other effects, reduced sex drive. This happens because, according to a recent study of women's eyes water containing certain chemicals.

Although no smell, but actually chemicals in tears is sending certain signals that can make male testosterone levels decreased temporarily. As a result, a man will lose the passion for sex. Similarly, research published in the journal Science.

Although research is only done on a small number of respondents, but revealed that the tears memengerahui testosterone levels in men, skin response, brain images and descriptions of men in their passion. Researchers compared the effects of tear women with saline solution dripped into her cheek.

"Chemical signals included in the form of language. Basically we found that women send signals tear the word 'no' or 'not now'," said Dr.Noam Sobel, professor of neurobiology at the Weizmann Institute, Israel.

In fact, continued Sobel, this does not only apply to the tears of women only, but in this research he was focused on women because the weather is indeed much easier to cry. "It is difficult to find an easy male respondents cry," she said.

Tears are referred by investigators are emotional tears. "The content of different chemical with tears coming out because the eyes get smth. In the eye for example," he said.

In mice, the release of tears contain pheromones, odorless molecules that trigger the natural instinct. Intrigued by this, Sobel and his team conducted research to determine whether human tears also contain certain chemicals.

In his research he gathered the tears of the study participants were asked to watch a sad movie. For comparison, the researchers dripped a solution of salt on the cheek and then collecting the participants in a small tube.

Then the man asked to kiss the two types of water without knowing the difference. The men were then asked to rate photographs of women. Apparently, after kissing the tears, they feel less attracted to a woman in the photo.

In addition to testing through the photos, the men's testosterone levels were also measured by examining their saliva. Last is the view through the brain activity through MRI brain scans, after kissing the tears and the smell of salt solution.

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Satisfaction Pornography Affect Libido Men

Almost all normal man feels like a beautiful woman, especially if the scene without clothes, as it appears in XXX films. However, the obsession with men in these hot movie will affect the libido so that sexual relations can obviously no longer satisfy their desires.

Davy Rothbart Conclusions are presented in an interesting article in New York magazine. He was even a portrait of his personal experiences that have forged her orgasms because too often accessing pornography.

According to him, hobby accessing pornographic material that caused him trouble reaching climax during intercourse with a partner. He also recalled a similar experience in some men.

"Pornography will form the physical and emotional attraction of a man on sex in the basic neurological level, but also other unexpected effects," says Rothbart.

Behavior expert, Andrea Kuszewki, adding, the release of hormones such as dopamine and oxytocin that we experience when having sex was also occur when someone watch pornography.

"We watched pornographic material occurs also release dopamine and oxytocin hormones so that we so want to keep coming back again to experience that feeling," said Kuszewski.

However, these opinions have disclaimers because the hormone oxytocin and dopamine is associated with feelings of love and emotional closeness. Moreover, men generally like variety and the element of novelty in sexual relations.

The opinion also noted that denying the problem of pornography may not be the attachment, but its ability to satisfy desires. Men who are accustomed to seeing pornographic material may desire sexual variations that are difficult to fulfill than a real relationship with your partner.

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3 Habit Triggers Passion

Sex an amazing trip can be started  from the following  three  simple steps.

1. Routine exercise

Since long time the experts had recommended the importance of exercise to get great sex. The explanation is this, will sport the blood circulation, including those leading to the sex organs. Thus, the sex organs can function optimally. In addition, the exercise will also flex its muscles and trigger endorphins expenditure that can improve mood and increases energy.

2. Mengasup healthy food

In general, if you have a good diet, your body will always be in excellent health and fit. A diet low in saturated fat also would prevent the constriction of blood vessels, including those leading to areas of sex organs. As is known, narrowing of the arteries can cause impotence.

Unhealthy eating habits will also cause obesity, which resulted in disruption of hormone function. "Obesity can disrupt the balance of the hormones estrogen and testosterone," said Michael Krychman, executive director of California's sexual health center. Low testosterone levels and iron deficiency can also extinguish passion.

3. Manage stress

Do not forget to take off for a moment. "Most people are overworked and stressed. That would make their sex lives fall apart," said Irwin Goldstein, director of San Diego Sexual Medicine. He also recalled the importance of quality communication with your partner.

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Sex Should Be No Night

If it is still able to, please do this at night. However, if it feels tired, especially if both partners work, so-so would wait until morning waking.

Although in the traditional sexual activity of men more than women's activities, both sides in the exertion of sexual activity that if similar. However, more pity if women are working and have to take care of home and children.

If this incredible hassle. Not to mention fatigue as the housekeeping gone, must get ready to prepare the ground for the father who wants the plane landed. Really need the power. No wonder burnout before sexual intercourse often causes female orgasm difficult. Some people view sex as part of service to the husband who can not be denied. There is no element in there to enjoy sex as husband and wife.

Sex in the morning

Actual sexual intercourse is also comfortable in the morning. If getting enough sleep, then wake up, the couple can make a good sexual relationship. Moreover, if the morning, men who are still healthy to have an erection that time. This could further add to the excitement in the morning. Women also still in a fresh condition upon awakening.

However, it is difficult to do if they work from a place far from home. Wake up already should immediately prepare themselves and the children. The father also rush to the office so as not to be late and traffic jams on the road. Finally, sex is forgotten or if there is anything done as quickly as possible.

This problem is often experienced by couples today when the time was significant for both the less because of busy each. If so, please see the back of your activity, including intercourse. If you are aged 20-40 years but less than once a week had sexual intercourse, it means you have to start vigilant. Lest you have forgotten to enjoy meaningful sexual relationship!

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Dangers of Saturated Fats for Sexual Health

Fat in food eaten can help the body store vitamin that can be absorbed in fat, such as vitamins A, D, E, and K. These vitamins are very necessary for the sex organs to function.

According to Dr. Morton Walker in the book Sexual Nutrition (Nutrition Sexual), with 9,000 calories per gram, fat is the source of a large concentration of the body's energy. During digestion, fats are broken down into glycerol and fatty acids.

All animal fats, including milk, butter, cheese, lard, and oyster sauce is saturated fat. Sources of saturated fats, including coconut oil and palm oil. Saturated oils consist of hydrogen atoms that make it solid at room temperature.

Unsaturated fats are healthier to eat. When eaten weak unsaturated tend to reduce levels of cholesterol in the blood. These fats found in nuts, grains, corn, olives, and fish. Fish are the only animals that contain lots of unsaturated fats.

Hydrogenated fats are artificially strengthened by hydrogen which can increase cholesterol in the blood. This process can reduce the amount of essential fatty acids. Foods that contain hydrogenated fats are margarine, peanut butter and most fast food (fast food). Most medical experts and also member of the nutrition committee of the U.S. Senate believe that they should reduce consumption of fats, especially animal fat.

Sexual difficulties, obesity, and other degenerative conditions associated with dietary factors, including eating too many foods that contain fat. Eating fried, especially those fried in deep-fat fried method (fried with a lot of oil, such as french fries) are very dangerous sex glands.

High heat used when cooking can alter the chemical structure of fats and create toxins that can not be eaten and can interfere with the composition of sex hormones.

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Psychogenic Sexual Dysfunction, What's That?

Sexual dysfunction is collapsible so it means with the purpose to the satisfaction and the desire of men to always be brave stand in front of her partner. There are not many who think that women also have the same problem of sexual dysfunction and it is equally unpleasant as the man who erectile difficulties.

However, this time again I side with the men because the case that we will discuss this more often subtle, if in males than females.

Psychogenic erectile dysfunction

Erection is a natural thing in the normal male. Readiness in sexual relations after passing through the phase of arousal is characterized by the hardening of the penis resulting from full penile blood vessels.

Erection of a well marked with the man's ability to maintain an erection throughout the process until the phase of penetration and stimulation just before ejaculation. After that erection hardness will be reduced over time until the resolution phase.

However, what about men who have difficulty with intercourse erection when his legitimate spouse, but not with another woman? The answer is Psychogenic Erectile Dysfunction.

I had a few male patients who experienced this situation. Erection difficulties when dealing with her life partner, but could erect a maximum when dealing with other women.

Guilt makes erectile difficulties getting into. The woman becomes feel inferior or even angry because he thought the man was seen no longer attractive. Anger is not make this condition better, will actually make things more difficult for both sides.

What to do?

Examination of both physiologically and psychologically indispensable. Easiest to detect this is not to try sex with another woman if it has been experiencing erectile difficulties when dealing with a legitimate partner.

The earliest way to detect this is to consider an erection when you wake up in the morning. If an erection get up early (morning erection) is still good, but when the wife have intercourse with no or difficult, then you need to worry about the existence of psychogenic erectile dysfunction.

The handling of this problem is not with drugs which are well known from the class of sildenafil as Viagra, but rather by focusing on internal matters psychological.

Couples can start to discuss this among themselves first. If difficult, then it could ask for help from a sex counselor, psychiatrist or clinical psychologist who is an expert in the field of sex. Appropriate and rapid solution to this problem would be very good forward and could save the marriage.

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